Sex toys are not only for masturbating! Using sex toys with a partner can enliven your sex life and lead to more pleasurable, orgasmic, and out of this world sex.
These are my top four ways to bring sex toys into the bedroom, especially if it's your first time. Plus, I'll give you my recommendations for the best products to try!
1. Foreplay
Take turns using a vibrator to tease each other and spark arousal. This is one of the most basic, safe, accessible, and approachable ways to bring sex toys into your relationship.
If you're feeling extra adventurous, foreplay with toys can also begin before you even make it into the bedroom! Two of suggestions below can be worn discreetly out of the house to amplify excitement on your next date night.
Here are my top picks for first-time vibrators if you want to ease into using sex toys with your partner by simply tickling and teasing each other, plus have the option to expand your play as you get more comfortable:
Le Wand Necklace Vibrator
LELO Lyla 2 Premium Remote Controlled Bullet Vibrator
Je Joue Mimi Vibrator (The Naughty Collection Gift Set)
2. Oral Sex
Take it a step further and use a vibe to add to your partner's experience while you go down on them. Any of the above recommended vibrators are great for this as well!
Pro Tip: You can also try placing a vibrator on your neck while giving your partner head for new sensations for both of you. (This works for either penis or vagina oral sex...)
3. Perineum Play
A wand vibrator can be used to reach around and stimulate the perineum (the sensitive space between the genitals and anus) during intercourse. This can be a gentle introduction to anal play, or simply give your partner new sensations during missionary style sex.
Wand Vibrators are an all-time favorite for many couples. They are versatile and add full body sensations for both vulva and penis owners. Here are my top wand vibrator picks and these are all great choices if you are buying your first sex toy to use together with a partner.
Dame Com Wand Vibrator
LELO Smart Wand 2 Medium
Vibratex Magic Wand Unplugged Rechargeable
4. Clitoral Stimulation during Intercourse
There's nothing like a combined orgasm. Adding clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex is a game changer. Many "tried and true" sex positions can become space for new experiences and stronger orgasms with the additional clitoral stimulation from a vibrator.
These are some of my favorite vibrator shapes and types to use during penetrative sex:
LELO DOT CRUISE PINPOINT VIBRATOR
Le Wand Point
Hot Octopuss Digit Finger Vibrator
I hope these tips and product picks will inspire you to introduce sex toys into your relationship! You will not be disappointed.
xoxo,
Maureen
